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Empower International Ministries recently completed a trip to the African countries of Uganda and Burundi. Click for trip reports for 2008 from Empower (Carrie Miles) Linda Ikeda Betsy Anderson Frank Tweheyo's report on the family in Malawi Empower International/Uganda update Family Empower Project in Burundi is underway The Anglican diocese of Matana, Burundi, has proposed that Empower partner with them in a multi-year Family Empowerment project. At the invitation of the archbishop of Burundi, Carrie Miles and Frank Tweheyo spent a week in June 2008 meeting with the team and conducting some preliminary programs and research. The following letter from project leader Ribakare Pontien highlights some of the issues with which they are dealing.
Family Empowerment team with Archbishop Ntohoturi Bernard Need: Dear Carrie, Greetings in Jesus’ name. I hope you are well as we are here in Matana Diocese. All the family members are well, Eularie still remembers you well and longs to see you again. Surely I was so happy to hear that you are about to come back to Matana, and since i have heard it I keep praying for you that God will use you as He did the other time. I would therefore want to tell you about some of the Burundi cultural issues which need to be dealt with: When a woman get married and fails to get either children or gives birth to only girls, in Burundi culture she is not seen well by her husband's family, sometimes she is threatened and sent away and her husband can marry another women. Normally, the Burundi culture doesn't treat equally boys and girls, rather boys seem to have high value and dignity than girls. Again, when a girl fails to get married or her marriage fails to last and returns home, she now undergoes threats from both her parents and her brothers using the aggressive vernacular expression like:" IGISUBIRAMUHIRA" just meaning someone who hasn't any where to go. This is not supposed to inherit anything from her parents, but only boy have rights to inherit from their parents whereas girls are overlooked. Another big issue that young people use to talk about concerns the lack of freedom in decision making. Parents require a big dowry that many boys cannot get, and as consequence there are girls who fail to get married although they are cherished by their fiancés simply because their parents are not pleased with the dowry, ethnicity or the economic condition of the guys... To be short, I would like to inform you that there are a number of cultural issues to deal with and as I told you we have a lot of work as we seek to teach people to get out of their old beliefs and practices. However, thanks be to God because Christians are gradually overcoming such behavior because they have come to know that in Christ men and women are one and equal. Our task is to keep sowing such a spirit in people’s hearts. When you come you will be told even other challenges like polygamy...but in between I shall send you a project proposal writing which will show you clearly the major problems to deal with. Again thank you dear Carrie for your love and commitment to the work of God and specifically in Burundi-Matana diocese because God has sent you in the right time when many people need to hear, learn and know the value and dignity of anybody created in God's image. God bless you richly and convey our greetings to all without forgetting Patti. With love, Pontien RIBAKARE Frank is traveling to Burundi in August 2008 to work with the core group. Carrie will return in June 2009. Bright is in the US! Bright Arinaitwe, Carrie's Ugandan research assistant and Empower's soon-to-be filmmaker, is currently in the USA. The guest of Empower missionary Linda Ikeda and her husband Russ, Bright spent the last year attending DeAnza College in Cupertino, California, in order to acquire the technical skills required for film production. These skills are not taught in Uganda, nor almost anywhere else in Africa. We are interested in developing films to teach our message of Biblical unity and equality. Film is a great media as many people in the villages cannot read. Please click here for more information on the FILM PROJECT. Bright is presently interning in Los Angeles but is open to other projects before returning to Uganda in January 2009. Please contact us if you are interested in hosting Bright. May 2007
One of the highlights of the seminar was something shared with us by Hellen Akatukunda, assisted by her husband, Emmanuel. Hellen had read about mutual submission in Carrie's book, The Redemption of Love and spoke about it in a trip to Kenya. When she came home, she decided to greet Emmanuel in the traditional position of submission among her tribe, on her knees, to see what Emmanuel's response would be.
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