Linda Ikeda's Report on the Empower 2008 Trip

Utterings from Uganda, Part 2 June 2008

 

 

    Returning to Uganda this year certainly made it feel more like home. The familiar sights sounds and faces warmed my heart and drew me in immediately.  Betsy Anderson, dear friend, mentor and spiritual director, traveled with me and it was a welcome joy to have her company. We met Dr. Carrie Miles at Heathrow in London and had just enough time to taxi over and tour Windsor Castle! Then we boarded our third flight in less than 24 hours and flew all night to Entebbe.  

 
   

    We stayed at the very comfortable home of Jovah Kamateeka in Ntinda, just outside of Kampala. Jovah is a vibrant Christian sister, mother of 4, widow and Undersecretary to the Ugandan Reform Commission.  She graciously opened her home ‘midst all our comings and goings; providing wonderful meals, ambiance and comfort. I enjoyed walking around her yard and seeing many familiar plants; verbena, hibiscus, roses.

    In the short time we were in Kampala, we had the opportunity of meeting with Jovah’s Widows’ Group and their children. Most of these widows have endured great hardship and are also raising the orphaned children of a family member who has died. They are a source of continuous encouragement and accountability to each other. Betsy and I each spoke to the group; fielded questions and then Betsy met alone with the Mom’s and I with the children.                                                    

 

   The following day, we drove the 8 hours to Kabale (southwest Uganda) with Mercy Tumkunde. She is a 33-year-old credit officer at a bank, wife, and mother of two small children. She has also been a dear friend to Bright, loves Jesus, is a brave and aggressively careful driver and is tons of fun! Kabale, which is Bright’s home town (actually he is from a village about 30” drive from Kabale) is known as the “Switzerland of Africa”! It is surrounded by high, terraced green hills and mild weather, a welcome relief from the heat of Kampala.
 

Mother's Union Leaders, Carrie, Linda, and Guests

     While in Kabale, Carrie put on two conferences addressing Christian Marriage and Biblical Gender Equality. The first conference consisted of 30+ people from all over the country who were Mother’s Union leaders in their communities. Delightful brothers and sisters (7 men and the rest women)! Their task was to become equipped with the material from Carrie’s Bible study workbook so they could each return to their communities to teach others. Carrie called these “Train the Trainers” or “T3”’s. For the Mother’s Union Conference, all the participants were provided rooms and meals at the hotel. Being together for three days was an ideal setting for deep fellowship, worship and prayer. Betsy provided meaningful vespers at the end of each evening.

      The second conference was for Pentecostal clergy and leaders, led by Frank and Phobice Tweheyo, a multi-gifted fortyish couple who also translated for us. At the end of their two-day conference they had the three of us come up front and laid hands on us and prayed for us.
 

Betsy, Linda, and Carrie with Pentecostal Leaders

    

      I am not sure that I will ever be used to the low status of women in Uganda. There is such a double standard for men and women and if a divorce occurs, the children, who are considered property, belong to the husband. Polygamy occurs among many men as does infidelity and their wives are often infected with HIV from the husband’s promiscuity. Domestic violence against women is rampant. This is just a part of the reason that Carrie’s teaching is so important.  

Lake Bunyonyi, Uganda 

    

     One of the highlights of this time was taking a bus up to beautiful Lake Bunyonyi-a huge lake nestled in the hills, dotted with 29 varied islands. We clambered into two small boats and went to Bwama Island, the site of a boys’ school one of our attendees was the headmaster for. The boat rides over and back were marked by zealous singing and laughter.

 

   One other island worth mentioning was quite small, grassy, with one tree. This was the island that, up until the late 1800’s, girls who were pregnant out of wedlock were deposited on and left to die. Many drowned trying to swim to the mainland, many died on the island…and some were “rescued” by men who, not being able to afford bride price, would paddle out at night under the cover of darkness, and take the abandoned girl as their wife! The name of the island? Punishment Island!

 

Though we did participate in an ancillary way in Carrie’s conferences, Betsy and I had the opportunity of hanging out with the “street children”, a ministry of some of the local churches. Some of the children are single/double orphans (having lost one/two parents); some have been put out by their families who can no longer afford to feed and clothe them, and a few have chosen to live on the streets. Sniffing glue and gasoline, “eases” the pain for many. About 25 kids congregate at this center, every day for a few hours and they get loved on by Pam and Eddy, an English couple who left everything, to live among and minister to these children.

     The kids can wash their clothing, get a hot meal (bananas and gruel), and hear about a God who has not forgotten them. Pam and Eddy are there with a listening ear and are also teaching them some simple farming skills. They have been able to reunite about 12 boys with their families as well as see that several others are back in school. Betsy and I pulled out our old Young Life songs and talks and shared music and a scripture story each day. We also brought some great puppets my sister made and this was an effective mode of communicating. We gave some of the puppets to Pam and Eddy and invited the boys to put on a puppet show for us the next day-a task they took on gladly!

 

            

 

While at the street kids’ ministry I met Pastor Edward who pastors a nearby church as well as oversees many other ministries, one of which included an orphanage called Akanyijuka, which means “God remembered me”. As a result of this “chance” meeting, I was able to go to the orphanage and provide two sessions of training for the Mama’s there. David and Kathryn Guinea, a young couple from Australia, whose church has been providing relief work in the area for quite some time, started Akanyijuka less than a year ago.  How humbling to be in the presence of these ones who have left behind so much to care for the “least of these”. The 32 children are divided into 4 family units with one “mama” each. The thing that struck me about the children was how small they were. Even 6 year olds were the height of three year olds; the sad result of malnutrition and neglect. As we left Akanyijuka for the last time, the children gathered and enthusiastically sang for us. Very touching.

We also had the opportunity of speaking to a women’s group from a local Pentecostal church. There must have been 35 teens and women stuffed into a little tiny room, sitting on benches. We shared our stories, Betsy gave a teaching and then we responded to questions for an hour or so. Dear, dear sisters who blessed us with their singing and deep faith.

We also addressed about a thousand students at Bright’s secondary school, Trinity College. Their beautiful singing blew us away! And then Betsy took all the girls, and I all the boys and we fielded questions for an hour or more. They were curious about American teenagers: what do they do in their free time? How do they remain pure? They were very interested in Obama and asked additional questions such as: why do Ugandan’s know our language and we do not know theirs? How is the church is addressing homosexuality? What tribe was I from? Is there polygamy in America? Why are there so many guns in America? and other easy to answer topics! We also met with the faculty for a similar kind of exchange. One of the surprises about our time there was meeting a team of students from Azusa Pacific University doing a building project at the school. The amazing part was that one of the young men, Drew Hall, was from my home church. Small world!

On our drive back to Kampala, we stopped in a town to pick up a young 22 year old from North Dakota who is trying to discern where God would have him minister in the next year’s time. Driving him to our meeting place was another American pastor who teaches at the university who just “happened” to be very interested both in the gender equality materials and the work of helping traumatized kids. We were able to give him some of our books and he assured me that he could keep me busy full time treating traumatized individuals, if I were to live there.


Once back in Kampala, we spent significant time in the Acholi Quarters, where a multitude of refugees from Gulu and other places in the north had settled. Joyce and Julius Ouko, along with their young daughters Patience and Charity live and minister among them. They have started a church and are reaching out to widows and orphans, of which there are multitudes. Carrie preached, Betsy taught adult Sunday school and I had the dubious pleasure of entertaining about 100 orphan children, all at once, for their Sunday school. I had major hot flashes with that assignment!  Later in the week I did a training for parents and others who are caring for orphaned and traumatized children. Betsy also gave a two-hour impromptu parenting training. She was amazing!

I also did a training at St. Peter’s Anglican church where I learned a new approach to managing dozing participants. When Canon Helen noticed someone in the audience with closed eyes, she went over to them and clapped her hands in their ears, then had everyone stand up for a rousing song or two! It was quite effective! 

Another morning we wandered through chaotic mud “streets” and alleys where children would call out, “Hi Muzungu (white person)”, and women were doing their laundry midst random goats, chickens, ducks and other varieties of God’s creatures great and small. We passed a group of women sitting aside a huge tub filled with writhing green things-grasshoppers who had their wings pulled off. Apparently fried, they are quite the delicacy. No we didn’t try them!



A definite highlight of the trip was traveling out to visit Bright’s grandmother, a godly woman affectionately called “the old lady” who has been a spiritual mother to scores of people throughout her 70 years. Bright comes from a rich heritage! Then we traveled 25 min. further down the road and met his mother and 6 of his 8 siblings. The house was lit with one kerosene lamp and a tiny pen flashlight and the newly cemented floor was the result of money Bright had sent home. Bright’s mother and I just hugged and hugged; one mother to another. Their hospitality was so gracious, truly the “widow’s mite”.

Another serendipitous meeting set in place by a friend from the Pacific Northwest occurred with Margaret Hill, who along with three others from Wycliffe International, have published a user friendly book called HEALING THE WOUNDS OF TRAUMA: HOW THE CHURCH CAN HELP. This book was born out of the author’s work with church leaders from countries with serious conflict and is actually printed in Kenya. I was able to buy 100 copies to distribute.

I am certain that these “chance and serendipitous meetings” were put in place by your faithful prayers for us. Thank you so much for your financial help, your prayers and encouragement. In these ways you were a vital part of the ministry team.

Yours in His Worldwide Love,
Linda Ikeda

 

 

   

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